She had been in remission from breast cancer for 7 years.. 2 months ago she found out she had cancer of the lower bowel... in the following weeks she developed deep vein thrombosis - while she was admitted to hospital for treatment they discovered that she had ovarian & lung cancer too, it was terminal (she told no one that it was) - so she booked herself out and did what she loved most - she went drumming . She had one last amazing party at the begining of the month and this morning at 2.30 am she died in her sleep.
THis was one of the last photos ever taken of her .. it was at her benifit concert held on the 9th May ..
I am sorry that i was not back in SA to be with her and her daughters, I am sorry that I was too much of a coward to see her before I left .. I am ashamed that I put my fears of my cancer returning ahead of seeing her ... I loved her loved her very much
this was an article in the paper about the concert http://www.tonight.co.za/index.php?fSectionId=348&fArticleId=4959476
she was a very loved and popular lady. Every one from all walks of life gravitated towards her ...
Sunday, May 24
Aunty Roberta - Rest in Peace
Wednesday, May 13
paradise found ....

Yesterday, we went to then most stunning beach at Flic N Flac... the water was crystal clear and Miguel could easily snorkel as it was only chest high on him. We will most certainly go back there. Miguel could not wait to get in ..


Sunset from the kitchen window ... dont have any of the beach yet, as every afternoon at sunset the clouds come!!

Sunday, May 10
The two things that he loved the most were feeding the fish while swimming with them and jumping off the boat into the water ... we are going to try and go back at least one more time. The waters are incredibly clear and just by looking over the side of the boat you can see an abundance of fish and more coral than I have ever seen in my life!! It was an amazing day, with Miguel just loving every second of it all!

My Boys

Blue Bay ... could you find anything better??

getting ready for his fave. part ......

Have to go as I dont have much more time .. love to you all
MWAH!!
Monday, April 27
My new favorite song. I found it through Blubirdbaby thanks for this great song ...
Don't you worry, there my honey
we might not have any money
but we've got our love to pay the bills
Maybe I think you're cute and funny,
maybe I wanna do what bunnies do with you,
if you know what I mean
Oh, let's get rich and buy our parents homes in the South of France
let's get rich and give everybody nice sweaters
and teach them how to dance
let's get rich and build our house on a mountain
making everybody look like ants
from way up there, you and I,
you and IWell you might be a bit confused
and you might be a little bit bruised
but baby how we spoon like no one else
So I will help you read those books
if you will soothe my worried looks
and we will put the lonesome on the shelf
Oh let’s get rich and buy our parents homes in the South of France
let's get rich and give everybody nice sweaters
and teach them how to dancelet's get rich and build our house on a mountain
making everybody look like ants
from way up there you and I, you and I
-Ingrid Michaelson
Sunday, April 26
Dont you feel sorry for my family?
Well summer officially ended this weekend .. rain, rain, rain!!
Miguel has been quite ill for a couple of days now, - the poor thing had a sinus, ear, throat and chest infection!! So the night have been pretty long!!
Today he was much better so dad did most of the entertaining,so I spent a VERY productive day finishing long started projects as well as some newbies.A total of 9 completed projects!! Well done ... off to have a glass of FAT BASTARD Shiraz and then tidy up time ....
Saturday, April 25
I love how innovative some people can be ....
You have to wonder at how much the internet has allowed creative people to develop and showcase their ideas .. we wouldnt see 10% of the things we see now ... I shudder at the thought, how drab!!
I have joined twitter ... still dont get the point of it to be honest, but my geek love stated that i am no one if i do not so here i am - look me up : the_cleof
Sunday, April 19


Im off now to start my new embroideries for the 3 bags that I have started, but I have to put Miguel to bed first as he is finished. My little social butterfly had such a full diary this weekend - yesterday he had 3 birthdya parties - one at 10am, another at lunch time and the last at 2!! Then today we had a 1 hour 45min mass for a baptisim and then the whole day at the beach body surfing and swiming ... to be honest I think that he is so tired he is looking forward to school tomorrow so that he can rest!!!!
Friday, April 17
HERE IS THEIR STORY ON HOW THEY STARTED :